The Power of Knowing How and When to Let Go
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Identify Doubts: When you feel uncertain about letting go of someone or something, start a journal for 30-60 days.
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Purpose: Do this for your own clarity, so you don’t walk away with doubts or hesitation.
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Acknowledge the Truth: Begin with the difficult truths—why are you feeling this way?
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List the Negatives: Write down all the negative aspects of the situation, expanding on each detail.
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List the Positives: Write down the positives and reasons you’re drawn to it.
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Step Back and Reflect: Take a step back to gain perspective on your feelings and observations.
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Visualize Without It: Imagine your life without this person or thing. How does it feel?
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Explore the Source of Doubts: Reflect deeply on the roots of your doubts.
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Take a Break: Let it go for a few days without thinking about it.
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Trust the Process: You've laid out the positives and negatives; trust that clarity will come naturally.