You Don't Know What You Don't Know: Why You Should Always Think This Way, and How to Change Your Habits
- It’s simple – When you say, “This is the best restaurant in the world,” have you really tried every restaurant? Probably not, right?
- Especially with political opinions – Are you present in the White House or government offices to truly know everything going on?
- Be cautious with your opinions – Don’t form strong opinions on situations or events unless you’re actually there to witness them.
- When judging others – Whether it’s about a couple’s marriage or anything behind closed doors, be careful about forming opinions.
- There's a saying: "Turn your tongue 7 times before you speak" – This means think carefully before you express yourself.
- Be mindful of gossip – If someone tells you something, listen with one ear, and keep your mouth closed until you ask the right questions. Avoid rushing to judgment.
- Master the phrase "You don't know what you don't know" – Remind yourself of this often. As you adopt this mindset, your behavior and remarks will improve. Seek knowledge and stay informed.
- Dealing with opinionated people – You might be surrounded by strong opinions. If they question why you’re not speaking, explain what you’ve learned.
- Make sense of it with others – Sharing this approach will help you become more thoughtful in your discussions.
- Respect will follow – Once you’ve mastered this mindset, you’ll be seen as a thoughtful and respected individual.