How to Make a Marriage Successful: What to Do Before It's Too Late, and Why You Should Fight for It
- Communication is key – You’ve probably heard this a million times, but are you actually practicing it? Communicate without judgment, assumptions, or using an authoritative tone.
- Honesty matters – Be open about your feelings, even if it makes you feel insecure or vulnerable.
- Trust is essential – Your partner needs to understand where you're coming from. Trust their words, and don’t repeat the same questions unless they give you a valid reason to doubt.
- Marriage is private – Never discuss the intimate details of your marriage with anyone—no family or friends. Keep your relationship sacred.
- Keep a journal – Write down the good times to remind yourself of them on difficult days.
- Love and chemistry – These are vital for a successful marriage. Keep the spark alive.
- Work on what’s missing – Every relationship is unique. Identify what's lacking in yours and put effort into fixing it. Get creative and try new ideas.
- Reflect on why you married your partner – Be honest about the initial reasons you fell in love and got married.
- If it was for financial reasons – Find ways to fall in love with your partner beyond money. What makes you proud of them? How do they treat you? Count your blessings.
- Parenthood – If you have children, ask yourself why you decided to have kids. Are they an amazing parent? Are they contributing to the marriage? Gratitude is key to growing both your life and your marriage.